I would have thought Kaya more of a cyber-priness, princess based on the tiara, slightly cyber not completly. He's not vulgar, but it seems even though he's not wearing "elegant materials" he still has their air of elegants in the way he is, don't ask I think it's just an aura thing >.< . I would say drag queen either, dreag queens tend to still have that masculinity about them where as he is pretty much all femanin.
Didn't it say somewhere that Kaya would like someone who would control him rather than him doing the controlling....